Marriage on the rocks, Mr Chronic Pain seems at the core of it

Been silent because I’ve been trying to manage my SO’s having finally had enough of all my depression, symptoms, inability to work etc etc etc. Hasn’t spoken to me is about 2 weeks (which is amazing as normally I can’t shut her up during even 1 day).[edited out by oo, see later updates; what was here was not worth keeping so I took it out]